A Private Community for Gays Around the World

CURATED INTRODUCTIONS
HOSTED GATHERINGS
UNEXPECTED CONVERSATIONS

Gays in cities
want curated ways to connect—where they live & where they travel

APPS AREN’T FUFILLING

Sector curates weekly intros & organizes city gatherings
for you

WELCOME TO THE COMMUNITY

How It Works

#1 Apply to Join
the Community

Membership applications
are hand reviewed
by our team

#2 Meet Your
Concierge

We get to know you
through text, email
and interviews

#3 Get Introduced & Invited

3 thoughtful introductions &
invites to city gatherings
every month

Previous City Gatherings by the Team

  • Tom of Finland's 40th Anniversay

    Executives, artists, designers, fund managers, engineers, editors, humanitarians, and more within the community came from around the world to celebrate Tom of Finland’s 40th anniversary.

  • Mayor Pete in NYC

    Mayor Pete visits New York City and attracts the brightest stars from the community to support his campaign for the Democratic nomination.

  • An Evening Before Pride

    A curated list of industry executives and creative leaders gathered in the “Succession” penthouse in Hudson Yards to connect and toast another season of love, equality, and visibility. 

  • Unexpected Conversations

    Super model/OG Mugler muse Connie Fleming and legendary DJ Lina Bradford go back in time to revisit New York City’s night life history and its impact on culture and community. 

  • A Toast at Boom

    An evening of champagne toasts and skyline views, this monthly cocktail reception brought together rising stars and seasoned power players at the iconic Boom Boom Room.

  • Collaboration: Dinner Series

    An intimate dinner with Chrome Horse Tequila and Arquiste parfums. This series brings together emerging talent and established members to share ideas, spark connection, and build lasting relationships.

  • Unexpected Conversations

    Kevin Aviance x Virgin Hotels. Amid a wave of anti-trans and anti-drag legislation, we gathered at the Virgin Hotel to uplift one another and hear Kevin’s journey—from club kid to Beyoncé collaborator.

Sector Memberships

Curated Introductions
Hosted Gatherings
Unexpected Conversations

Junior Membership

Emerging talent, artists & professionals under 30 starting their journey

    • Access to digital concierge

    • 3 monthly introductions to other members

    • Invites to monthly city gatherings

    • Select invites to “Chez Sector” (dining series)

    • Members only briefings

    • Select guest invites and member nominations

    • Mentorship opportunities

    • Dating opportunities

  • Coming soon. Dating opportunities, partner rewards, surrogacy, professional opportunities, unique adventures—all curated for you.

Prime Membership

Ambitious rising leaders & artists
under 45 in all industries

    • Access to digital concierge

    • 3 monthly introductions to other members

    • Invites to monthly city gatherings

    • Select invites to “Chez Sector” (dining series)

    • Members only briefings

    • Select guest invites and member nominations

    • Mentorship opportunities

    • Dating opportunities

  • Coming soon. Dating opportunities, partner rewards, surrogacy, professional opportunities, unique adventures—all curated for you.

Legacy Membership

Families/experienced leaders over 45
shaping business, culture & tech

  • Grow a curated network that supports your next chapter—personally and professionally

    • Access to digital concierge

    • 3 monthly introductions to other members

    • Invites to monthly city gatherings

    • Select invites to “Chez Sector” (dining series)

    • Members only briefings

    • Select guest invites and member nominations

    • Mentorship opportunities

    • Dating opportunities

  • Coming soon. Dating opportunities, partner rewards, surrogacy, professional opportunities, unique adventures—all curated for you.

Questions & Answers

  • The Sector Membership & Community Board considers many factors, but the core question we ask is: How might we collaborate with this candidate? You don’t need to be a celebrity, a power broker, or a Nobel Laureate. What matters most is a clear sense of who you are. Show us your strengths, your real interests, and why you’re drawn to this community—with honesty, clarity, and confidence. That goes further than you think.

  • Our Membership & Community Board review applications monthly and accept members on a rolling basis. Due to limited availability, those not immediately accepted are placed on our waitlist for future consideration.

  • Both! Sector blends digital concierge service with in-person gatherings: we send you curated introductions to standout guys via text and email, then bring you together at invite-only events.

    We’re most active in NYC. Our members live everywhere: LA, SF, Miami, Marrakech, Paris, London, Stockholm, Mexico City, more.

  • Not no. While a permanent space isn’t our current focus, we believe community lives in people—not in walls. For now, we’re focused on creating connections wherever our members are. You may spot a pop-up house or two—especially in collaboration with your favorite brands.